Second PreNatal Check Up

This appointment was a total disappointment. My doctor is a very busy man and everything is rush rush. I don't mind so much except I am feeling so miserable and he has no solution. I have been having a lot of pain his answer is that it is my ligaments stretching! Ok fine! Take Tylenol. Well that is fine but he didn't even look at me or do anything to make sure that is all that is going on. He told me to take it easy and stop lifting. Well I have 2 kids that are too little to not pick them up at times. So he said lift with my knees and get ready cause its only gonna get worse as I get bigger. Which is fine, and probably right. However, what if that's not the case. What if its one of those one in a million situations, and he didn't even look at me to see what is going on. The babies heart beat was fine and so is my blood pressure. I just would have felt better had he done more. Or maybe an ultrasound just to make sure. I have lost weight I went from 195 at my first appointment to 193.5 which is not a bad thing at all. Since I am already over weight, and really bummed out about being so big!